DAVID
AND JONATHAN
1
Samuel 18ff
Today
the headlines would scream “YOUTH SLAYS GIANT!” And about 1000 B.
C. Saul's general brought David back to the king's tent still holding
Goliath's severed head. Saul was stunned. “Who ARE you really?”
David told him, and he told David he was no longer a shepherd but a
warrior.
Scripture
says Prince Jonathan and David became fast friends over night. Not
surprising really, because they were two of a kind. Remember a few
chapters back the prince and his squire attacked a Philistine outpost
by themselves and wiped out a whole squad that turned into a rout, as
did David's victory. The two young men were drawn to each other and
committed themselves to a deep friendship.
Saul
apparently commissioned David into his army as a leader. We don't
know how much time passed, but apparently it must have been a year or
more. In the meantime, after shuffling a couple of girls around, Saul
gave David his daughter Michael as a wife. Note that made him part of
the royal family, which Saul would later regret. Jonathan didn't
care. The two men were so close they knew when the time came,
whichever wore the crown, the other would be his companion.
But
Saul was bugged, badly disturbed in more ways than one. David was an
incredible leader as well as a capable warrior. (I've wondered
whether his brothers who mocked him now followed him?) He became the
subject of pop music:
Saul
has slain his thousands;
David
has slain ten thousands!
Hearing
the gals singing drove the king up the wall! He couldn't stand it!
He even took Jonathan aside and said, “Look kid. This guy is out
after your kingdom. We gotta protect the dynasty here.”
Side
note: the dynasty issue explains a lot in world history and in
Biblical history. David had several sons by different mothers. Often
goaded by their mothers, the sons were jealous of each other and
sought an advantage. Incidentally, that's one answer I give when
smart-alecs ask why they were allowed multiple wives in the OT. I
say, “Yes, and you see what it got them!” Recognize that king's
marrying was a big deal. They marry princesses from another country
to bind the two nations together. They sometimes have multiple wives
to make sure an heir survives to be king. Remember most families lost
children early in life. Henry VIII famously broke with the Catholic
Church because the Pope would not let him divorce his wife who “could
not” bear him a son. He broke with Catholics and set up his own
church, now called Anglican or Episcopal. Anyway, all that comes into
play later when one son rebels against him to become king, and David
steals Bathsheba who became the mother of King Solomon. All kinds of
stuff going on backstage here!
Another
discursus: Saul was losing it. We might diagnose him today as
bi-polar, or manic depressive. This disease is characterized by wild
mood swings, sometimes including and eruption of anger out of
control. I worked in a private mental hospital unit while in
seminary, and one patient we had carried this diagnosis. We were told
at report one night that he had become enraged and threw a telephone
at his psychiatrist! So it is not surprising that Saul would have
these depressed moods that showed him as dark and brooding. David's
music seemed to help him at that point. But then he would be brooding
about David's popularity and the danger of his stealing the kingdom
from Jonathan. That's when he erupted and hurled a spear at his
giant-killer. But David was quicker and escaped.
He
and Jonathan met and agreed on a plan. The king had been so volatile,
he might have calmed down and would listen to reason. But it was not
to be. The prince tried to persuade his father that David was loyal
to him, but a characteristic of bi-polars is they are often paranoid,
suspect people plotting against them. And if you're the king, you
probably do have those who plot to seize the kingdom. Saul thought
his son was a fool, and that David would take Jonathan's rightful
place on the throne. (The question ultimately became moot, since both
were killed on the battlefield, leaving a clear path for David.)
Anyway,
the two young men did their secret agent bit, and the prince signaled
the shepherd that his father was still angry and bent on killing him.
He sent his squire back into the city, so the two could meet. David
now saw he had to flee, but not before renewing their covenant to be
faithful to each other. David was now going to become a sort of Robin
Hood and mercenary for several years.
The
lesson focus is on their friendship. I used to have a self-help book
by a psychologist in Arizona or someplace. His favorite form of
“therapy” was friendship. He said everyone should have at least
five friends, and we should include them in every day we could:
coffee breaks, drop-ins, lunch, sports, phone, whatever. One friend
should become our very best friend with whom we share anything and
everything. The others should be folks we are comfortable with and
enjoy being around. Oh – what kind of friend are you?
DAVID
AND JONATHAN
1
Samuel 18ff
Today
the headlines would scream “YOUTH SLAYS GIANT!” And about 1000 B.
C. Saul's general brought David back to the king's tent still holding
Goliath's severed head. Saul was stunned. “Who ARE you really?”
David told him, and he told David he was no longer a shepherd but a
warrior.
Scripture
says Prince Jonathan and David became fast friends over night. Not
surprising really, because they were two of a kind. Remember a few
chapters back the prince and his squire attacked a Philistine outpost
by themselves and wiped out a whole squad that turned into a rout, as
did David's victory. The two young men were drawn to each other and
committed themselves to a deep friendship.
Saul
apparently commissioned David into his army as a leader. We don't
know how much time passed, but apparently it must have been a year or
more. In the meantime, after shuffling a couple of girls around, Saul
gave David his daughter Michael as a wife. Note that made him part of
the royal family, which Saul would later regret. Jonathan didn't
care. The two men were so close they knew when the time came,
whichever wore the crown, the other would be his companion.
But
Saul was bugged, badly disturbed in more ways than one. David was an
incredible leader as well as a capable warrior. (I've wondered
whether his brothers who mocked him now followed him?) He became the
subject of pop music:
Saul
has slain his thousands;
David
has slain ten thousands!
Hearing
the gals singing drove the king up the wall! He couldn't stand it!
He even took Jonathan aside and said, “Look kid. This guy is out
after your kingdom. We gotta protect the dynasty here.”
Side
note: the dynasty issue explains a lot in world history and in
Biblical history. David had several sons by different mothers. Often
goaded by their mothers, the sons were jealous of each other and
sought an advantage. Incidentally, that's one answer I give when
smart-alecs ask why they were allowed multiple wives in the OT. I
say, “Yes, and you see what it got them!” Recognize that king's
marrying was a big deal. They marry princesses from another country
to bind the two nations together. They sometimes have multiple wives
to make sure an heir survives to be king. Remember most families lost
children early in life. Henry VIII famously broke with the Catholic
Church because the Pope would not let him divorce his wife who “could
not” bear him a son. He broke with Catholics and set up his own
church, now called Anglican or Episcopal. Anyway, all that comes into
play later when one son rebels against him to become king, and David
steals Bathsheba who became the mother of King Solomon. All kinds of
stuff going on backstage here!
Another
discursus: Saul was losing it. We might diagnose him today as
bi-polar, or manic depressive. This disease is characterized by wild
mood swings, sometimes including and eruption of anger out of
control. I worked in a private mental hospital unit while in
seminary, and one patient we had carried this diagnosis. We were told
at report one night that he had become enraged and threw a telephone
at his psychiatrist! So it is not surprising that Saul would have
these depressed moods that showed him as dark and brooding. David's
music seemed to help him at that point. But then he would be brooding
about David's popularity and the danger of his stealing the kingdom
from Jonathan. That's when he erupted and hurled a spear at his
giant-killer. But David was quicker and escaped.
He
and Jonathan met and agreed on a plan. The king had been so volatile,
he might have calmed down and would listen to reason. But it was not
to be. The prince tried to persuade his father that David was loyal
to him, but a characteristic of bi-polars is they are often paranoid,
suspect people plotting against them. And if you're the king, you
probably do have those who plot to seize the kingdom. Saul thought
his son was a fool, and that David would take Jonathan's rightful
place on the throne. (The question ultimately became moot, since both
were killed on the battlefield, leaving a clear path for David.)
Anyway,
the two young men did their secret agent bit, and the prince signaled
the shepherd that his father was still angry and bent on killing him.
He sent his squire back into the city, so the two could meet. David
now saw he had to flee, but not before renewing their covenant to be
faithful to each other. David was now going to become a sort of Robin
Hood and mercenary for several years.
The
lesson focus is on their friendship. I used to have a self-help book
by a psychologist in Arizona or someplace. His favorite form of
“therapy” was friendship. He said everyone should have at least
five friends, and we should include them in every day we could:
coffee breaks, drop-ins, lunch, sports, phone, whatever. One friend
should become our very best friend with whom we share anything and
everything. The others should be folks we are comfortable with and
enjoy being around. Oh – what kind of friend are you?